Okay as women and young women one thing we can be guilty of is reading too much into things. Because of our nurturing nature we are use to having to read between the lines when talking with people. Unfortunately, the downfall to that is that we often make things that are small or nothing into the greatest offense. Some of it is a direct correlation to your Self-esteem, however I believe some of it is to also know our differences from men. If I can get you to understand this fact at an early age the less drama you will have to face as you get older.
Being aware of your surroundings with guys is important. However let me be the first to say they are not all liars! Yeah I know that may be the total opposite of what you've been taught and/or believe. It is the truth though; there are some guys that are true to their word. What we have to be careful of is not discrediting everything someone says based on what Tyrone and everyone else did in the past. Again I stress the importance of paying attention to one's actions and not just their words. If the person has been honest with you in action as well as words then why are you tripping? Why with every little thing are you making a scene? Sometimes people really do have to work late, maybe it really wasn't him that Chantal saw at the game. I mean she was 500 feet away and the guy had his back to her. She could be mistaken. SMILE!
This is why it is so important for you to have a relationship with God. What people call intuition, when you have a relationship with God you know it is the Holy Spirit. If you will be wise and listen to the Holy Spirit, he will share with you when things are not right. Learn to take relationships one day at a time. Stop meeting guys and automatically assuming he's the one! Work on yourself; build yourself up so that you don't need always be in the presence of a man. Get a life that is centered on God, for He is the one that matters. Trust me the sooner you learn this, the better for your emotional health. J
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